Merry Christmas

Merry Christmas!

I remember presents under the tree, long tables of food, and getting into trouble with my cousins. Most of the time my family lived in tension, fighting, shouting, hurting, and hitting. But at Christmas we knew how to lay aside all of our dysfunction and celebrate the birth of Jesus the Messiah.

Christmas was the safest time of the year. Somehow all of the insanity that normally ruled our lives would be forgotten and we would pretend that all was well. I loved to see Christmas come and hated to see it go.

Many people this year are struggling with having a big Christmas. Fear of the economy, concern about new taxes, and being unemployed have demanded we buy less. Credit card companies increasing interest rates and lowering line of credits have ended the normal way many people financed Christmas. Christmas this year instead of feeling safe can for many people be forcing them into facing the hard economic times that they will have to live with in 2010.

But Christmas is more than presents. It is suppose to be a time of remembering an eternal love that came to us in a baby boy. It is a reminder that even during economic crisis, nothing can separate us from the love of God that is found in Messiah Jesus. It is to remind us that we are always safe in God's love and in God's plan for our lives. We may suffer but all suffering has purpose.

So this Christmas take time to open your heart to feeling the embrace of God that is found in the Messiah Jesus who became fully human that He might die for our sins and take us to the kingdom of heaven forever. Messiah Jesus came that we might know God and be free of our sin. That really is the best news we will ever hear for all eternity.

Dealing with Holidays

It is hard at times to not feel bad during the holidays.

This year I had a friend die a week before Christmas. He had been sick for a long time. But I had gotten use to the idea that he was sick and that he was still there. I did not visit or write him as often as I should have. I felt bad as I said goodbye to him this week. I should have been a better friend. His death made me recognize my failure to express my love for him.

I know that my friend's family will have a sad Christmas. There will be an empty chair at the table. That is always hard.

Yet, my friend had given us a wonderful Christmas gift. It was the gift of a life of faith. He left a legacy which spoke of his faith in Jesus the Messiah as his Savior and Lord. He left a testimony of love for people and for sharing the gospel. There is no doubt my friend is fully filled with Jesus' joy. By the grace of God his sins are forgiven and he has total peace. The gospel brings joy even into sad times.

The complexity of life makes it hard at times to enter into a time of celebration. The holidays sometimes make us face what we have loss. Some of the emptiness of life is pushed before us.

Yet, if we allow ourselves to hear it; there is also the wonderful story of Christmas. The story of God's unending love. The reality of God's embrace in the person of Messiah Jesus. The hope of forgiveness and eternal life in the joy of God. The hope of the gospel.

This Christmas I am feeling many different things. But the comfort of my heart comes from the good news that God so loved the world that He gave His only Son....